DEFINITION OF A RACING FRIEND,off and on the track
Stock Car Racing History
In the early 60s, it was my best friend, Frank (we started school together in kindergarten), who accompanied me to the Richmond GN races and really explained many things I didn't understand. We started going to Southside Speedway together in spring of 1965 and joined NASCAR together to build our "Hobby" car that never raced.
We pulled for J.T. Putney, Ray Hendrick and Al Grinnan together.
Frank rode the Greyhound Bus with me to Darlington in 1966 and the Rockingham race trains in '66 and '67. Frank was carrying the other side of the styrofoam cooler of beer in 1967 whose bottom bottom fell out walking up the old inclined asphalt ramp to Bristol's front stretch grandstands.
My first trips to Darlington, Rockingham, Bristol, Beltsville, South Boston, Old Dominion and Langley were made with Frank. After leaving the service, Frank began to teach Journalism in the early 70s at the University of North Carolina in Chapel Hill, while at the same time working as the sports guy on the Siler City, NC newspaper.
As the sports guy, Frank got me pit road race credentials to Rockingham and Charlotte. He came to Wilson and Chantilly to see our Limited Sportsman car race. He was in my wedding in 1973.
When I began managing the Dale Earnhardt/Wrangler Jeans program in 1980 I was able to return the favors to Frank by getting him really good credentials.
Frank moved to Pennsylvania in the 1980s to become Director of Public Relations at Mount St. Marys College in Maryland. When I moved back to Richmond to become Media Relations Director at the Richmond track in 1990, I'd go up to Pennsylvania to visit Frank and go with him to tracks around the Mechanicsburg area like Williams Grove and Silver Spring to see sprint cars for the first time.
Also, in 1990, Frank started coming down to Richmond to help me out on race weekends in the infield media center. I left Richmond after the 1999 season, but Frank still comes down twice a year to help the track. This will be his 24th year running the infield media center there.
I haven't seen Frank in a number of years, but few weeks go by that we are not iin touch.
Since we started attending school together in 1954, we have had only one major disagreement. I thought John Juachiak was the best first baseman for the Richmond Virginians AAA baseball team in the early 60s and he thought Frank Leja was. He also pulled for the New York Yankees and I pulled for the Chicago White Sox.
We've both made many other friends through the years. We both have grandchildren. But, when he or I see news about one of our short track weekly heroes passing, we can be certain the other will get an immediate e-mail. That's what friends do, regardless the distance or the years.
We've never once been nasty with each other, regardless of how strongly we disagree. That's a lesson that could be learned here on our RacersReunion site.