Benny Parsons' Finest Hour

Dave Fulton
@dave-fulton
13 years ago
9,137 posts

Benny Parsons beside the L.G. DeWitt #72

I hope you will forgive me for posting this a few days after the fact, but I thought this inspiring piece well worth the read, even if it's a few days late. Undoubtedly one of Benny Parsons', Wood Brothers' and other NASCAR folks' finest hours.

A Christmas story
By Tom Higgins - ThatsRacin.com Contributor
Friday, Dec. 23, 2011

It's a story of Christmas past, one of long, long ago.
And although it took place well back in the 1970s, what occured remains among my very favorite Yuletide memories.

Those recollections move me to reprise the story once more as the most glorious and meaningful holiday for the worlds Christians draws near.
I hope that somewhere a fellow now approaching middle-age remembers this tale of uncommon caring and generosity as well. It happened in the small town of Ellerbe, located deep in the heart of North Carolinas piney Sandhills.

The hamlet had gained a measure of notice as the home of 1973 NASCAR Cup Series champion Benny Parsons, who moved there from Detroit to drive for local team owner L.G. DeWitt.

One wintry, dreary December day Bennys two young sons, Keith and Kevin, came home from school with sad faces. Their glumness made the day seem even grayer for Benny, who had been elected president of Ellerbes elementary school.
The boys were upset because they had learned that some of their classmates were not going to receive presents or anything special to eat for Christmas.
Benny immediately checked with teachers and administrators at the school. He found that the situation was even worse than he imagined in the area stricken by a high rate of poverty.

Parsons, known throughout motorsports for his tenderness of heart and good-guy nature, sat about to rectify the sad situation. He began calling in favors from his many friends in racing.

Donations of winter jackets, shoes, food, toys and Christmas candy began accumulating.
On short notice a big party was scheduled for the auditorium at Ellerbe Elementary the night before holiday recess was to begin.

Some of stock car racings foremost stars showed up to take part.
The Wood Brothers , Glen and Leonard, had a choir from their church in Stuart, Va., travel down by bus to sing the Christmas carols.

Children who never had known much of a Christmas were wide-eyed as Santa called their names to come on stage and receive gifts.
One little fellow, a lad of 7 or 8, strode over to where Benny and I stood watching. He held a toy truck in one hand and a pair of new sneakers in the other.

Mr. Benny, what am I supposed to do with these? he asked.
Benny was stunned.
Why, take them home, son. Theyre yours, he said.
The kids face expressed astonishment.
To keep!? he asked.
Benny gulped. His eyes moistened and he leaned down to give the little guy a hug.
Then Benny excused himself to be alone for a bit.
I knew whyI was crying, too.

Benny Parsons, the winner of 21 races, 20 poles and named one of NASCARs 50 Greatest Drivers, passed away on Jan. 16, 2007 at age 65 of complications from cancer.
Left to mourn this magnificent man, who became an award-winning motorsports broadcaster, were his wife, Terri, his two sons, many other family members and millions of fans.

God rest ye, Merry Gentleman




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"Any Day is Good for Stock Car Racing"

updated by @dave-fulton: 12/16/21 12:11:16PM
Tim Leeming
@tim-leeming
13 years ago
3,119 posts

Now I have tears in my eyes. My many, many encounters with Benny Parsons are all very memorable for the simple reason that he ALWAYS made me feel like I was the celebrity. Not many people can pull that off well but it was so sincere from Benny everytime. He made everyone feel that way. First time I recall hearing this story but it doesn't surprise me one little bit. The world needs a couple hundred million Benny Parsons.




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What a change! It's been awhile since I've checked in and I'm quite surprised. It may take me awhile to figure it our but first look it's really great.

Bumpertag
@bumpertag
13 years ago
363 posts

Benny was a rare fellow. The first time I met Benny was at Talladega, the year may have been 1982 or 1983. He was the first to qualify for a cup race over 200 MPH and he was quite busy in the days leading up to the race, but this day he came near me in the garage and I spoke, and to my astonishment he stopped, smiled and chatted with a few of us for a brief time. He was so genuine and pleasant and it is for that for this reason I remember that race. Not so much his qualifing speed but because he allowed me to share a few minutes with him between scheduled interviews. Great guy, the sport lost a true gentleman.

I know many drivers and teams reach out to people in need, and they should, but the storyposted by Davegoes beyond a simple need, it addressed a true heartfelt desire to bring joy to the most innocent during the holidays. We need more people in the world today like Benny.